October 25, 2020
Since you are the one who has to live with your choices,
be sure they are your own.
- Alan Cohen
This can seem like a difficult proposition when looked at in the context of a D/s lifestyle, but I ask you, is it really? I think not. Our choices, to give submission, to accept the gifts and guidance of a Master or Dominant, are our own. We can talk all we want about consensual nonconsent and slaves having no limits, but in reality, we all have choices.
We have the choice to allow our behaviour to be a reflection upon our owners. We make the choice to practice with dilligence, the tasks they set for us, to serve them with a whole heart, and if we cannot, to allow them to go their own way so they, and you, can find someone who suits you better. We choose the path we walk.