October 8, 2020
Why do people lie?
I had a date scheduled for Saturday with a guy I met off tinder. He claims that he wants more but all he talks about is beating his dick and wanting to see my pussy. Needless to say, I canceled the date.
Normally I would have taken his words at face value, but I've done that too many times, given people a chance when they shouldn't get one. I am not going to do that again. I am going to start listening to the things I don't want to hear.
I debated going through with the date, I mean free food, maybe a movie, and a good time. Plus he seemed like the type of guy that would touch me in all the right places. Then I started thinking that me going through with the date would be condoning his behavior. He would continue to lie to get what he wants. I'm sure he will still continue to lie to get what he wants, but I just don't want to be the one hearing it. The person that will believe what he says although his actions say something different. Don't get me wrong I am open to casual sex, and I enjoy it, I however do not enjoy being led on.
It's best I walk away from him now, and maybe I will continue to do so in the future. I need a clear mindset and seeing him, facing the liars I've dealt with in the past, that's not the way to move forward. This feels like personal growth.